Free Resources
Free mental health tools to carry between sessions
A small, growing collection of free practices, recordings, and grounding exercises you can return to whenever you need them — whether you’re a client of Empatherapies or simply looking for a calmer moment in your day.
A grounding breath
4•7•8 Breathing
A simple way to settle a busy nervous system. The long, slow exhale gently signals the body’s parasympathetic “rest and digest” response. Follow the circle below, or use the counts at your own pace.
- In Inhale through the nose — 4 counts
- Hold Hold gently — 7 counts
- Out Exhale through the mouth — 8 counts
Repeat for three or four rounds. If you feel light-headed, return to your natural breath.
A breath to steady the mind
Square Breathing
Equal counts in, hold, out, and rest — an even, balancing breath that calms the mind and body. Follow the dot around the square, or use the counts at your own pace. You are safe here.
- In Inhale through the nose — 4 counts
- Hold Hold gently — 4 counts
- Out Exhale through the mouth — 4 counts
- Rest Rest, empty — 4 counts
Repeat for four or five rounds, letting each side of the square take the same easy time.
Coming back to the present
Come to your senses: 5•4•3•2•1
When the mind is racing ahead or pulling backward, this practice draws you gently into the here and now. Move slowly through each sense, naming what you notice — out loud or quietly to yourself.
- 5See Five things you can see around you.
- 4Touch Four things you can feel — the chair, the floor, fabric, warmth.
- 3Hear Three sounds, near or far.
- 2Smell Two things you can smell.
- 1Taste One thing you can taste.
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Listen
Yoga for Mental Health
A conversation on how movement, breath, and contemplative practice support the nervous system and mental wellbeing. Listen on your platform of choice.
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On video
More guided practices to watch
A few more short practices from the channel — for steadying the nervous system, soothing stress, and finding a little more calm in the day.
Bee Breath
For calm and stress relief
Butterfly Tapping
Gentle self-soothing for the nervous system
Havening
Self-soothing for stress and anxiety
Three Minute Breathing Space
A short mindfulness practice for calm and clarity
Deep Relaxation & Hypnosis
For calm, rest and renewal
On my channel
More short practices to calm your nervous system & restore balance
Short, guided videos you can return to any time — breath, grounding, and self-soothing practices to support your nervous system, wherever you are.
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